A sudden move doesn't change your parenting-time order—here's how to avoid contempt when life forces you to relocate.
Sudden relocations are increasingly common—job loss, new housing needs, family disputes, or safety concerns can force a parent to move with little warning. But while a parent may feel the move is unavoidable, Indiana courts take parenting-time compliance very seriously. A relocation does not automatically change an existing court order, and misunderstanding this is one of the fastest ways a parent finds themselves facing a rule to show cause.
A Move Does Not Override the Order
Many parents assume that if their circumstances change, they can temporarily adjust visits “until things settle down.” Courts expect strict compliance unless and until an order is modified. Even well-intentioned deviations—such as limiting visits because a new residence is “not ideal”—can result in findings of contempt.
When Safety Concerns Are Legitimate
Parents may have valid worries, including unsafe living conditions, substance-abuse triggers, or conflict in the new home. The correct response is not to unilaterally deny parenting time. Instead, parents should document the concern and seek agreement in writing. If no agreement can be reached, a temporary modification or emergency motion may be appropriate.
When a Modification Is Appropriate
A sudden move may qualify as a substantial change in circumstances, particularly when it significantly increases travel for exchanges, creates safety concerns, results in an unstable living situation, or disrupts a child’s school or routine.
Practical Steps for Parents
• Follow the current court order unless modified
• Communicate with the other parent in writing
• Avoid assumptions—a move alone does not change parenting time
• Seek court intervention early to avoid conflict and contempt exposure
Indiana Relocation Statute Reminder
Indiana’s relocation statute may apply even to in-state moves if parenting time is affected. When applicable, a notice of intent to relocate must generally be filed at least thirty (30) days before the move or within fourteen (14) days of learning of the relocation.
Bottom Line
Relocations happen. But acting outside a court order—even briefly—can jeopardize parental rights and credibility. The safest approach is compliance, documentation, and timely court involvement.
This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Every case is unique. For guidance specific to your situation, consult with an attorney at The Nice Law Firm, LLP.
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